Sunday, September 14, 2014

An Alternative Due to Bruising

The spanking from Friday left my bottom bruised.  Three spots - two on my cheeks (just bluish/purple and half dollar sized) and one where my leg and bottom meet (big, ugly and red/purple). It seems incredible that I would be bruised. Don't get me wrong - the spanking hurt like hell. However, it didn't seem to be anything intolerable, and so the bruising was a complete shocker for both of us.

I need to go to the OBGYN but I am going to have to delay that visit.

So, last night when we were supposed to be cooking together (him cooking, me calling out ingredients and directions), I was a little short. He sent me away so he could cook dinner alone.  I came back some time later to check on things, and was told I had to write 50 sentences that say "My mouth is for eating and sucking cock, not being disrespectful."

Wow. Okay.

I actually did it, and it took a while (that is a long sentence to write!) but I believe a few things are in the works. One, that damn chat he went to.  Surely he got this idea from them!  Two, the bruising. I bet he is hesitant to spank when I am already bruised and needing to go to the OBGYN. Regardless, I do think a spanking would have been more effective.



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15 comments:

  1. Kitty the Submissive WifeSeptember 14, 2014 at 10:18 AM

    I too would prefer spankings and it sounds like you had a doozy.

    I assume that you know without my saying that you still have to take care of yourself. You can't miss doctor's appointments etc. You guys are only at your best when you are both lifting each other up.

    Having said that, a sentence writing is better than a soaping. (Hee.)

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    1. The WifeSeptember 20, 2014 at 11:55 PM

      Yes, thank you for the reminder. Bruising is now gone and I will reschedule on Monday morning!

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  2. UnknownSeptember 14, 2014 at 1:44 PM

    Oh boy! That would have taken me forever! I would rather have soap :-/
    I'm going today to but the arnica cream for bruising. I never thought about going to the dr! That would not be good. Maybe I'll not encourage my HoH to join the chat yet ;)

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    1. The WifeSeptember 21, 2014 at 12:02 AM

      Oh yes. I never thought about the doctor either...until I needed to go!!! Oy!

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  3. willieSeptember 15, 2014 at 6:45 PM

    Urgh. No thank you. Don't worry too much about the bruising, your bum gets used to it . I know. I know, difficult to believe but a girlfriend and I were chatting one day about how 'robbed' we feel now. Our spankings are FAR worse than they were when we started Dd...and no war wounds to show for it.

    Whenever I have an appointment Barney stops spanking for the week prior. Yeah, it's not always great ( even for an angel such as myself...despite what SOME may have led you to believe the other night..ahem).

    Good for you for writing the lines. Barney and I discussed that at the start of ttwd and it was ruled out ( thank GOD). For him the intimacy of a spanking is just as important as the punishment. I know for some women though, other punishments are very effective. Perhaps in time it will be for you as well, but the spanking stuff is all so new that it tends to stick as paramount in the mind...LOL

    willie

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    1. The WifeSeptember 20, 2014 at 11:58 PM

      Thanks, Willie! I agree about the intimacy of a spanking! I laughed at loud when I read your conversation with your friend. Perhaps some day Tonysdoll and I will be chatting about how "robbed" we are. Right now, though, we pretty much commiserate about our sore bottoms! hehe

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  4. AnonymousSeptember 15, 2014 at 7:10 PM

    "My mouth is for eating and sucking cock, not being disrespectful." - I want to know how THIS sentence is your husband being respectful to you. I know this idea of DD is that respect goes both ways, but that comment seemed disrespectful to you. Not only is your mouth good for many more things than what he pointed out, sucking cock is ONLY for when the hubby has been on HIS best behavior.

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    1. The WifeSeptember 21, 2014 at 12:00 AM

      I wouldn't take his sentence too literal or seriously. I had to try not to smirk and laugh when he said what I had to write. He certainly does not think or act toward me in a way that would suggest he believes that sentence. So no worries, Anonymous!

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  5. AnnabelleSeptember 15, 2014 at 8:44 PM

    I really have enjoyed reading your posts. Thanks to Willie for directing me your way. Love the honesty and sense of humor. Welcome here and I look forward to following you.

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  6. AnonymousSeptember 16, 2014 at 7:49 AM

    New reader! Great blog! I will finish catching up later! Welcome!

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  7. River WildSeptember 17, 2014 at 11:47 AM

    Hi,
    New reader here, thanks to Willie's link. I am looking forward to catching up on your posts. It sounds like your husband is creative :)

    River

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  8. The WifeSeptember 20, 2014 at 11:54 PM

    :) Yes, creative...That is both good and bad!!! heheh

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  9. BlondieOctober 9, 2014 at 12:35 PM

    I am sitting here, reading your blog posts and g-mailing chatting with Willie when I see she left you a comment and she had a link for you too. I just gave her a little lecture and a pout.
    Sentence writing is tough but that was a creative sentence to use. Made me giggle because I can see that being one my husband would like, if we started writing sentences

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