Last night we had Over the Hump sex. It was eh. In the middle of Over the Hump sex, I do have a little bit of a hard time becoming aroused, and it bothers me. No matter what HoH does, I just cannot get my head in the game that first time. And as always, I am always a little fearful that we won't somehow get back to the good stuff. It is just an unrealistic fear, but...
This morning, after a little sugar that involved "as rough as one is comfortable while remembering that one partner is pregnant," I would say that the fear is gone and we are definitely over and past the hump.
Glad to hear that I am not the only one that suffers from this! Once it has been awhile I get resistant to it. It's almost like I forget how good it is for us as a couple and how good it is for us individually as well. Glad you are back on track!
ReplyDeleteThat is a great way to explain the" getting back into sex" sex. My humble opinion would be that during the first 3-4 months put no strain on your stomach. But sex is usually allowed during pregnancies. I was a little bit younger when I had my last of five. OTK was out, but leaning over pillows on the bed worked. Be creative. Congratulations
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